Need Advise, Ask Raider

RaiderOctober 21, 2011

Raider may not have a PhD in love, but he’s an expert in life situations. He’s dealt with many experiences throughout his years and is ready to share his outlook on life. Bring on the questions, Raider is ready to help solve your problems.

Q. When a man is labeled as being a freak is there a different definition for “freak” when it’s a woman? IJS


A. Mr. Sirlaster,

No!!! There is no different definition for a woman when she is labeled a “freak.” I mean other women might consider her a hoe, but at the same time they would be talking about themselves because everybody have a lil freak in them. Its just the freak have to be brought out of some of them. So to me, everybody is labeled a freak even when they think its just pleaseing their mates. “FREAKS RULE!”

Q. What if the person you were in a relationship with all of a sudden starts to blast you on FACEBOOK along with lies and much disrespect? All because you won’t put up with his BS anymore, how should I handle this??

Miss N.

A. Miss N.,

You have ran across a kiddy hop ass dude. He just looking to down rate you because he know you are a good girl. Obviously, he knows your goods are “golden.” Don’t trip, let the kid run wild because the more he talk about you the higher your stock goes up. The way you handle him is with out of sight out of mind. Do you boo! Your friends wont knock you behind a hatter. Don’t feed in to the bullsh*t on Facebook.

Q. What do you think about a woman dressing her man? I like to buy my boyfriend’s clothes, with his money of course, because I think I have better taste. But he doesn’t like it. What should I do?


A. Ms. Tricia,

Well, a man likes to spend his money on what he likes to wear. I’m saying if you want to dress him spend your on cash on want you want to see him in. Then he will have no problem wearing it, I promise. But you trying to handle a dude like he’s a kid, like you his mother. You might have better taste, but that’s not your cash you spending. That’s like him getting your money and going buy you some dollar store rags to put on. Spend your cash and he will be happy. Problem solved.

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