Need Advise, Ask Raider

RaiderOctober 14, 2011

Raider may not have a PhD in love, but he’s an expert in life situations. He’s dealt with many experiences throughout his years and is ready to share his outlook on life. Bring on the questions, Raider is ready to help solve your problems.

Q. My girl is always playing with her phone. She claims she’s playing games but I think she’s texting dudes. Would I be wrong if I look through her phone or should I just trust what she says?


A. Mr. Mark,

I think you should trust what your girl says. Yeah, I think you would be wrong for looking through her phone. If she is not going threw your phone then you would be out of line. You really don’t have to worry, if she’s cheating it will come to the light,”BELIEVE THAT.”

Q. What should I do if my husband is always playing video games?


A. Ms. Lisa,

Try doing something to keep his mind off that video game. Not trying to be funny, but walk around nude when he pulls that game out. If that don’t work try leaving the house when he gets on it. Either one of theses options should work. If not your relationship might be in trouble behind a damn game. Communication holds all relationships together and it seems like you’re not getting any. Let him know that.

Q. I can’t cook and my husband knew that when he married me. Now, all of a sudden he wants me to cook meals.I feel like he knew what he was getting himself into when he married me. But he thinks I should learn to cook, what you think?


A. Mrs. Veronica,

I’m pretty sure it was somethings he couldn’t do either before you all got married. Yes, I think you should learn how to cook for your man. You wouldn’t want him going somewhere else for a meal. Practice makes perfect boo, so do whatever you need to keep a happy home. A good meal and sex will always keep a man in order. Good luck with your cooking.

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