Need Advise, Ask Raider

RaiderOctober 7, 2011

Raider may not have a PhD in love, but he’s an expert in life situations. He’s dealt with many experiences throughout his years and is ready to share his outlook on life. Bring on the questions, Raider is ready to help solve your problems.

Q. I  just broke up with my boyfriend and I am miserable. It also doesn’t help that he works with me. Should I quit my job so that I don’t have to see him on a daily basis?


A. Ms. Michelle,

I don’t think you should quit your job behind a break up. I’m sure this is not your first break up and it probably want be your last. Keep your head up at all times and get that money because time heals all broken hearts.

Q. What do you do when you have an ex that keeps interfering with your present relationship?


A. Ms. Tanya,

I use to do that crazy stuff all the time thinking I would get her back that way. But that just pushed her further away. So just keep doing you and pay him no attention, and I promise he will figure out that you are through with him. Once he figures out the love is gone he’ll stop going places he even thinks you are at.

Q. I met this woman over the internet and we’ve been talking on the phone and over the computer for a couple of months now. We have not met in person yet, but lately she‘s asked me for money on several occasions. Do you think she trying to hustle me for my money?


A. Mr. Jordan,

You find a lot of women that hustle men on the internet daily. If you have been leading her own like you are an easy hustle then you setting yourself up. On the other hand, she just might need help or she’s trying to see if your out for her or the sex. You need to be careful on this one. Ask yourself what are you trying to get out of this friendship? You never know she might be a keeper.

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